Maintaining a spiritual connection is very important in my life, and hopefully in yours too. Regularly taking positive action in this area helps keep you centered and focused, and refreshes mind, body and spirit. Religion differs from spirituality in that it is more dogmatic. Spirituality concentrates on your own personal relationship with whatever Higher Power is most relevant to you.
Naturally, you may call your Higher Power whatever you want to, like Mother Nature, God, the Universe or perhaps Bob! The name or label is much less important than the quality of your connection and your willingness to allow it into your life.
What follows are some basic tips to help you improve your spirituality as well as help you develop a more solid connection with your own concept of spiritual connection. Work on spiritual aspects of your life gradually and consistently. Doing so keeps you from being overwhelmed.
- Engage in the practice of meditation
In a consistent fashion, try to establish a time and place where you could spend a quiet moment in the morning or during the evening. Ten to fifteen minutes is all it takes. This is also a good time to assess how your life is going or to simply focus and quiet the mind. Your mind needs space to relax too. The key to effective meditation is controlling your breathing. Breathe deeply and rhythmically and when thoughts intrude, simply focus on your breathing again.
Praying is a form of meditation. A mantra, or meditation phrase, helps you focus on your breathing instead of on the random thoughts that come and go. My personal favourite is "Om Mani Padme Hum", which is a Buddhist mantra that is not readily translated into English. (For more information on this mantra.
-Don't isolate yourself, be with people.
You could try taking a class or joining a hobby club. For some, having positive relationships and interacting with different people can alleviate that feeling of loneliness. Personally, I play ping pong with a group of friends every week which combines socializing with exercise!
-Keep your mind active, keep learning
It is never too late to go on learning. The mind needs nourishment, so make sure you continually feed it. Keep it active by reading books and watching DVD's related to psychology, spirituality, self-help or whatever you would like to learn. Exercise your mind with crosswords and puzzles.
-Have fun
I like this part. Believe it or not, being spiritual does not only mean being serious all the time. Don't take yourself too seriously and develop the ability to laugh at yourself.
Why not engage in some hobby or activity for the simple fun of it? You could begin by exploring sports, hobbies or whatever it is that intrigues you.
-Be of service to others
For some people, doing some volunteer activities or doing some acts of random kindness works best to help them become more spiritual. Giving for the sake of giving and not for some ulterior motive makes you feel good inside. This is how we make the world a better place and increase our capacity for compassion.
-Practice non-judgment
This is hard because everyone makes judgments all the time. When you judge someone you are really comparing them to your own standards. If they do not meet your standards you can look down on them and feel superior. If they exceed your standards you could feel jealous or envious or inferior, all undesirable emotional states. This is a lose-lose situation. Again, awakening your compassion allows you to view others with empathy rather than judgment.
-Show gratitude
There is actually a lot to be thankful for, and acknowledging the bounty in your life allows more to enter. I also regularly express gratitude to my body for supporting me.
Again, try to practice each day appreciating an aspect in your life for which you are grateful. Thank the universe for another day to spend and another day to make yourself, your life, or the lives of others better. In conclusion, making room for spirituality in your life will greatly enhance your feeling of well-being and connectedness. And don't forget to breathe, breathe, and breathe again!
